Friday, November 13, 2015

Why my government is killing me by cigarette?

Although it’s a known fact that we do not trust our leaders and this matter of doubt has been increasing with every new government. Most of the Indians believe that they are first class citizens who are availing third class treatment. Apart from inefficiencies and insufficient resources we also live in a dangerous environment, the environment and the life which is adulterated and harmful. It’s killing us but as we all know that political leaders consider money above humanity. There are many things which are not only harmful to nature but also to mankind but still our leaders are silent and ignorant about it. Most common thing which is being produced in abundance is cigarette and tobacco. These items have proved to be dangerous to nature as well as to humans. The biggest problem with the usage of cigarette is that the one who smokes it affects himself as well as others in the most dangerous way. It’s like being punished for the crime which you have not done. 

Cancer is the most awful disease which can happen to you but surprisingly this cancer causing commodity is welcomed happily as it brings lot of revenue and taxes for the government. The government can ban noodles completely from the market but cannot apply the same ban to the commodity which is causing cancer. This proves that money is above humans.

“Smoking is injuries to health, it causes cancer”

Do you think this one slogan is enough to stop this?

Why government is risking people’s lives? Is money and revenue important more than people of India?

Every year hospitals are flooded with patients who are suffering from cancer and most of the people are deprived of right treatment due to shortage of money. They get early grave as reward as this killing commodity is never taken away from the market. Government and political leaders have excuse that this is what people want but they forget the fact that there are only a specific percentage of people who are addicted to smoking but the rest of the country which includes millions of mango people are also suffering the consequences because of some percentage of cigarette addicted people.

Drugs are illegal in India as they kill people slowly but cigarettes which are killing people through painful cancer is welcomed as the money government get in their treasures is far more important than the people of India.

Cigarette smoke contains over 4,000 chemicals, including 43 known cancer-causing (carcinogenic) compounds and 400 other toxins. These cigarette ingredients include nicotine, tar, and carbon monoxide, as well as formaldehyde, ammonia, hydrogen cyanide, arsenic, and DDT. Nicotine is highly addictive. Smoke containing nicotine is inhaled into the lungs, and the nicotine reaches your brain in just six seconds.

Putting on no smoking boards and highlighting that old one line slogan is not a solution to this problem. As apart from regional smoking bans and public smoking bans cigarette is causing severe damage to the people of India. It’s time to put complete ban on cigarette which means banning the production and manufacturing of cigarettes. It’s important to take this crucial step no matter how much the smoke addicts cry as putting the whole country on risk for some stupid habit is the biggest murder our leaders can do.

Monday, November 9, 2015

Killing humanity on the streets...

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Crime is an awful activity that usually happens in India. Although crime is a common problem in every country and there can be thousand reasons behind the crime but there are some crimes which are ignited on the spot without any reason behind. The most uncommon crimes which occur commonly are the crimes happening at street. People call it road rage but it’s much more than that. Indian towns and streets have always been messy and crowded. The country India is a developing nation where everybody wants to develop themselves more than others. But the problem behind human nature is that most of us don’t know the difference between ego and development. We often consider our ego as our identity which leads us to a state where we cannot maintain the line between our stubbornness and our foolishness.

 Generally all of us have problems in our life; the difference is the level of the problems. Our problems generate anger and pride and most of us exhibit it on the roads.  There are uncountable mistakes we do while travelling and others do who are passing by. Off course we all are humans and humans do mistake but we take ourselves for granted and take others as the biggest culprit we have encountered. There are many cases of accidents noted every day where some or the other is at fault and once our car or our vehicle get injured, we activate our anger mode to injure the person in return. This is a serious criminal tendency we are growing with. Some people believe that education plays the biggest role in this but in reality education is no where required to judge a person’s humanitarian grounds. Today people are so fed up with their lives and circumstance that they are looking for reasons to kill each other. 

Unfortunately the most common place people get for fighting is the streets and the target is innocent people walking by. It’s not that we attack anyone passing by us but if somehow we get into an awkward situation with a stranger, we don’t leave a single chance of quarrel and fight. The most important thing to consider in this is why we exhibit this anger on a stranger whom we don’t even know? Why his one mistake seems a very big mistake to us that we become insane to take revenge from the person? The depth of revenge is so deep that sometimes a normal argument becomes physical violence which ends up with death. In short, why we are killing people on the streets?

There are many factors involved in this. Although anger , pride , ego , vanity and jealousy is a common trait people carry but the percentage of all these demerits are provoked by the architecture and craftsmanship of our streets and towns. It has been seen that most serious crimes are based on the foundations of useless excuses and unwanted activities. Most common issue among this is parking. Parking of cars has been a very serious issue in India since history, besides so much awareness, the government has been a failure in constructing good towns and cities. From corporate buildings to overcrowded markets to residential sector, parking has been a big issue which have caused serious crimes including murder. People fight like stray dogs for parking and verbal attacks are a common affair which sometimes ends up with physical violence. Besides this fact government has not been able to make constructive measures to avoid this problem and in fact this issue has been increasing with every new day.

Second issue which provokes people on street is traffic. We often get trapped in huge traffic which spoils our time and patience to a great extent. Sometimes the person passing by or the person driving in front of us is slow and causes traffic and sometimes any vehicle causes traffic due to any reason. We often blame the person but in fact the one who is responsible for this is the political leaders, the government and the town planner.

The streets in India are very narrow and even if the street is wide, its most of the portion gets cropped up by unwanted trees, plants and even encroachments by people. The government and the political leaders ruling are not interested in rectifying this issue as they are hardly aware about the severity of the situation. Unlike political leaders the common man does not have any z security to protect himself so chances of accidents and miss happenings are pretty high.

The whole system of town planning is questionable as every new town causes traffic, crowd, chaos and mess.  Pedestrian pathways , the green belt , the two wheeler lane , the four wheeler lane , the zebra crossing , the speed breakers , the signals  etc... All are mixed up in a most unprofessional manner. Most of the green belt is like a jungle where some wild weeds are projected as landscaping. The trees flank outside of the green belt and are generally projecting on the streets causing traffic, inconvenience and even accidents. The pedestrian pathways get cropped up by heavy transformers, electrical polls, wild trees, encroachments by illegal shacks. People in India prefer walking on streets rather than pedestrian pathways which cause great chances of injury as Indian people have tendency of driving cars faster in the crowded towns. The trucks and buses are busy in killing people walking by as they have simple excuse of low visibility. The bikes and two wheelers have inborn jealousy and competition with four wheelers on the streets which leads to frequent accidents and injury. The 3 wheelers popularly called as auto in India are famous for creating traffic jams as they park their vehicle wherever they desire as every corner of the road is their passenger stand. The red lights have no value in India and are just a piece of jewelry for streets in most of the towns and cities.

There are unlimited factors which provokes the devil inside. Forgiveness and kindness are words just written in books but not obeyed by most of the people in India. Although government and political leaders play a major role in maintaining this chaos as it has been seen that most of the towns and cities that are already cropped up by overload of encroachments and traffic are still left untouched. No correction measures have ever been introduced by any political party. Almost every political party in India have been busy in playing the trump cards of cast and religion and since history they are busy in the same. The frustrated common man sees no option except making their own rules and own judgments to live in the jungle of India. 

The people don’t feel scared in killing or punishing others as justice can be manipulated easily in India. We cannot blame the system completely as people are equally responsible in this. There are chances where we can control our anger and ego and can let others go. Kindness and forgiveness is the greatest reward one can give to others. Today almost every vehicle is insured so crying and shouting on breaking of light or any other part is childish. Even in case of any injury in accidents by vehicles, the law and order is there to provide justice to the victim. So instead of being a judge on the road one should behave maturely and not animally.


Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Is sex the ultimate solution for the success of any relation?

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Most of the people believe that relationships are based on emotions and sacrifice. They also believe that fulfilling the roles of perfect gender and fostering the materialistic needs are enough for the success of any marriage or relation. Good house, good food, clothing and status are considered important to work any relation. The most important and crucial key for the success or work-ability of a relation is never taken seriously and that key is sex.

Sex is the ultimate destiny of any love relationship. Best sex is certainly a guarantee to best relation as sex is the most primary need which humans long for. I have defined sex as primary need because without sex life seems like a nightmare. Our bodies are designed to have sex and in the absence of the same the mind gets irritated and life looks colorless and negative. People have always considered food and shelter as the most basic primary need and have only focused whole life towards this. Even in relationships and marriages, status and money is considered primary in selection of the match .Sex which is a very important part of life is never taken into consideration.

 There is one another important factor which parents forget while matching the horoscopes of their children and that important factor is physical attraction and liking. Physical liking and looks do matter no matter how much you ignore it. In most simple words it can be like an ice cream, you eat and like a specific taste of ice cream and no matter how much expensive the other ice cream is you don’t want it as your taste buds don’t like it. Similarly when it comes to marriage or relation or sex, physical liking and attraction are very important elements. As no attraction and no liking means unsatisfied sex or even no sex. Absence of sex creates mood swings and regular complaints and irritation as body does not feel right.

Besides providing physical satisfaction to the body sex is also a great source of relaxation and entertainment. Physical attraction provokes the sensual zones of the body resulting to better sex with regular and frequent orgasms. But if the partner is not appealing sex becomes just a duty and not an enjoyable affair.

sex has been present since the start of the journey of evolution and every creature and species of this world perform sex. the over dominance of cultures and ethics has created a very negative image of sex in people's mind. although the rate of enjoyment has not decreased at all but the quality and positive reviews of sex has been decreased .

In old times arrange marriages were conducted without the consent of the groom and bride , the liking and physical attraction were never considered important resulting to unhappy and non appealing life. Most of the old generation has lived the life of self sacrifice and patience which was not less than any prison life. There was no common topic of discussion or any quest to satisfy the partner in older times. The woman in older times devoted their life for children after procreation and the man had always been busy in working, the sex life was zero in most of the cases. In fact sex was only done for procreation which was just a duty and not a healthy way of expressing love. Although the younger generation is far more different but again is directed by the ideology of the parents. Even today people feel that sex is a bad thing to do and self expression and need for sex is considered selfish. 

It is really important for people to understand the importance of sex in life. absence of sex has created disastrous marriages and also had given rise to crimes and extramarital affairs. sometimes sex is absent because of some medical problem in one of the partners but even in these cases most of the couples feel hesitant towards taking treatment. sexual problem is still considered a big taboo in India . people consider it as a shame to be incapable in sex and male impotency is the main issue which strikes the ego of many men in India. couples who have a healthy sex life are also pressurized for procreation and if somehow they delay in procreation , society and relatives tend to question first about the health status of the bride or groom. in every manner sex is considered just a duty performed for procreation and not a basic and primary need of body. 

It is impossible to make people understand that sex is not a one time affair , it is a regular worship which needs to be done for the health and well being of couples.

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

What is section 377 and how it is ruining the nation India?

What is section 377 and how it is ruining the nation India?

As per the book language Section 377, IPC reads as: “377. Unnatural offences.—Whoever voluntarily has carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal, shall be punished with imprisonment for life, or with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years, and shall also be liable to fine.

The section was declared unconstitutional with respect to sex between consenting adults by the High Court of Delhi on 2 July 2009. That judgement was overturned by the Supreme Court of India on 12 December 2013, with the Court holding that amending or repealing Section 377 should be a matter left to Parliament, not the judiciary.

Section 377 was a law proposed by the British in 1860 in India. According to this law two adults of same sex cannot have sex. Moreover anal sex and oral sex is considered illegal according to this law and cannot be practiced by anyone including straight people. 

Till now people of India believed that homosexuals are only punished under this law but in reality everyone is covered under this law. The most funniest part of this whole scenario is that British have removed the same law from their constitution and have legalized same sex marriages and relation in their country but India is blindly following the old obsolete law of British which was intentionally drafted for India to create disturbances and hatred in environment as Indian rich history of kamasutra and mythology supported homosexuality to a greater extent.

This law is irrelevant and obsolete in many ways. The two consulting adults cannot even have a relation or sex if they are of same orientation which is a clear violation of human rights. There is no liberty or no freedom left because of this law. In other language people can only have sex for procreation and sex cannot be done for enjoyment which is the most backward concept. It is a known fact that nobody can have sex only for procreation. Human beings are born to have sex. The sexual organs are not built only for procreation but also for enjoyment and every possible human being enjoys sex for enjoyment.

 The market is flooded with contraceptive devices and condoms to prevent pregnancy and to promote sex for enjoyment. It has been scientifically proven that sex is important for body and it is the most powerful biological need. 

The people who are against homosexuals are also a culprit and criminal as they enjoy every type of sex with their opposite sex partner. Secondly besides foreplay and vaginal intercourse, oral sex and anal sex is practiced by millions of Indians as it is a part of sex. Advocating this law makes every individual of India a criminal. It is impossible to arrest people on the basis of sex method they opt.

Is it possible to monitor the bedrooms of every Indian to see whether they are doing vaginal intercourse or anal or oral sex? Anal sex and oral sex is part of sex and it is present since the history of India, the greatest evidence of this is Kamasutra, the oldest love book of India. Instead of promoting safer sex methods India is following these awful laws which violates the life, liberty and freedom of people of India but nobody cares for it as LGBT community is considered the prime target in this. The heterosexuals who are doing anal sex and oral sex frequently believes that they will never be caught as they are married and they are having children which is enough to keep the authorities silent.

Because of section 377 the HIV/AIDS cases are not treated well and most of the homosexuals or people of lgbt community do not go for checkups or treatment as being open as homosexual will create problem for them. They also face negligence and ignorance from doctors as they do not have any recognition. This section 377 is promoting HIV/AIDS as the fear of being caught keeps homosexual community under closet and people don’t gather courage to get them tested or medicated.

The police frequently harass and exploit homosexuals for money and there is no prevention of this extortion as homosexuals love is considered a crime in India and a source of income for cops.

As gay sex is criminalized in India, millions of gays marry woman in pressure by parents and society and ruin the life of the girl. There are millions of divorce cases recorded in India and the most common reason among most of them is sex. The girl remains unconsummated as the gay husband does not feel any attraction to woman. The gay men cannot reveal their identity to the girl as it is a crime and they simply get married and ruin everything. Sometimes these marriages take a disastrous end as many women have committed suicide after continuous ignorance. The government can ban gay sex but they cannot force gay men to have sex with woman. Moreover most of the woman get engaged in extra marital affair as the absence of sex in marriage provokes them to become unfaithful. Just because of this law millions of girls are getting trapped in the marriage with gay husband.

The so called saints of India have taken advantage of this law to shine their carrier as a sex pioneer. They provide fake medicines and fake promises to cure homosexuality. Sadly many parents give their only son or daughter to them and the result they get is worse than ever. Frequent torture and humiliation makes the condition of homosexuals worse as these saints attack verbally and emotionally to kill the self conscious and dignity of the homosexuals in India. Surprisingly these uneducated saints are welcomed by media to give their negative views about homosexuality. They create confusion and misinterpret the issue to the public and in reality their claims have no evidence and reference but still media entertain them in debates for good TRP. Besides this saints from different religions are also invited for discussion and their obsolete ideology based on their uneducated background makes things complicated for homosexuals.

Uncountable straight men are committing rapes and sexual crimes with small girls and animals but still homosexuals are blamed for it. A sexual crime can be committed by any one and the history of rapes in India has shown that almost every rapist who rapes woman practice anal sex apart from vaginal sex in the rape act. Heterosexuals have achieved distinction in rapes and sexual crimes  but still homosexuals are considered responsible for anal and oral sex.

Homosexual relation is not only based on sex, emotional bonding, support, affection and love are equally practiced just like any other couple. We must also not forget that millions of adults prefer penetration of anal and oral apart from vaginal intercourse and they are straight. Surprisingly heterosexuals are much more active in experimentation when it comes to sex then homosexuals.

It has also been noticed that homophobic people who hate homosexuals are also closet gays and the reason of hatred is basically jealousy and envy. Most of the homophobic people who are of old generation do not got chance to experience good sex in their life time but seeing present gay generation in freedom creates envy and jealousy to a great extent in them. They believe that if they haven’t got it why they will allow others for the same. They dislike and hate homosexuals as if homosexuals are some terrorist or murderer.
The section 377 states that unnatural sex with men, women and animal is punishable.

In reality forced sex whether natural or unnatural should be punished but sex with consent of both the partners should be allowed as preventing that is violation of human rights.

Secondly sex with animal and child should be punishable under this law which is totally justified.

The section 377 needs serious amendments and the main activity which should be criminalized is having sex with animal and children. Two adults making out love with consent are not criminal as expressing love is like worshiping god. The world is already filled with hatred and corruption, violating the fundamental rights of homosexuals is the most horrifying sin which the homophobic people are committing which they are not aware about.

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Monday, August 24, 2015

Is India a hidden Islamic and homophobic nation?

Is India a hidden Islamic and homophobic nation?

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India is a secular nation and the second largest democracy in the world but all these qualities exist on paper only. The reality of India is far more different than what is shown. The recent update about homosexuality is totally shocking. India joins other homophobic nations to vote against the equal rights to same sex partners at UN. Most of the homophobic countries involved in this are Islamic countries like Pakistan, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Iraq, Iran, Qatar, Oman, UAE etc. India intentionally and excitedly supported these nations besides knowing the fact that homosexuals face brutality and death sentence in these Islamic nations very often. Is this the indication of India as the new Islamic nation?

The tag of secularism and democracy is fading day by day specially because of the ideology and thinking of Indian political leaders. In current scenario the current political party in power is blamed to be ignorant towards this issue and it’s a known fact but looking at the past, among all the political parties of India there is not a single party who has ever stood in favor of homosexuality or has ever taken pains in putting this issue in parliament for the debate.

 India claims that India is secular and people have to follow the constitution and not any particular religion to live or express. The constitution gives fundamental rights to every person living in India including right to equality and right to liberty and freedom including the rights of minorities  but the recent case of India voting against same sex couples and further criminalizing of same sex relation in India proves that neither the political leaders nor the government cares about constitution. They use the term constitution to get votes and popularity but in reality constitution is kept away locked in a cupboard and nobody has right to apply it for the people.

Whenever any debate on homosexuality comes up, Muslim organisations and its leaders jump into the discussion in the most aggressive manner. They use the term Islam and their religion to boycott and stand against homosexuality. The reasoning of being against homosexuality is their religion Islam which they advocate in the country India where constitution has the power not any particular religion to make rules for the people. It seems so surprising that Muslims are powerful to so much extent in the nation India that they openly oppose the constitution and considers homosexuality as a crime as it is written in their religion Islam. The political leaders of India behave deaf, blind and vain as if India is an Islamic country and voice of Hindus cannot be heard here.

Hindu mythology and historic evidences in Hindu culture has shown evidences of homosexuality but still Hindus in India support Muslims when it comes to standing against homosexuals. The funniest statements given by many Hindu and Muslim leaders are that they don’t hate homosexuals but they hate homosexuality. They also say that they don’t want homosexuals to practice homosexuality but they can live as homosexuals. This is the most funniest and non relevant statement on record shown on every media channel in India. The so called authorized Hindu saints give their negative verdict about homosexuality as if they are fully aware about the issue.

Most of the ministers believe that homosexuality is a disease or mental illness and some even consider this as a delegation imported from the west. Many believe that it is contagious and most of the leaders believe that it’s a choice. The reality is that they don’t want to see the reality. They don’t want to believe the scientific evidences and they don’t want to tolerate the truth. They are the born superstitious people who still believe in miracles and myths. The term development and change are very big for them to digest. It is the bad luck of the country that people with non liberal views are ruling the nation India. It looks like that India is a country where dictatorship is in fashion. It seems like our political leaders consider leaders like Hitler as their inspiration as this is clearly reflected in their actions and behavior towards the minorities.

Lack of education and illiteracy is widespread in India which prevents people from seeing the reality. Most of the political leaders, religious saints and gurus are illiterate and uneducated. They don’t have any knowledge about science and sexuality the only thing they are blessed with is politics which they play very well in India.

Homosexuals have to fight a big battle to get their rights. Many homosexuals are aware about the reality of Indian leaders. In order to live their life with pride and freedom many homosexuals have worked hard and migrated to developed nations where homosexuality is acceptable. Frankly speaking If homosexuals want to have a good peaceful life, they have to leave the nation India and migrate to the nations who welcome homosexuality with open hands as this is one life they have got and being stuck in India and fighting for the rights is a total waste of time as the political leaders of India have a stubborn mindset of ignorance and in-sensitiveness which cannot be changed in a short span of time.

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Monday, August 17, 2015

How corrupt doctors of India kill patients in the name of treatment?

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The medical field of India has always been controversial and debatable but still Indians are a blind followers of doctors since history. Indians get so crazy for the term "doctor" that almost every parent wants to see their children as future doctors. India is blessed with over population with hospitals less than the actual demand. The over population of people is a blessing for doctors as more patients means more money. Till now non attending of patients was the only issue which was shown on TV or in any other media form but in reality there are uncountable things doctors do to kill their patients in India. 

First of all the learning doctors are the nightmares for the public. They are not less than any butcher as the senior doctors or teachers of these learning doctors give them liberty to exploit people for their so called Thesis. Example: The patient who comes to the hospital for pain in stomach is diagnosed for kidney pain/disease as the respective doctor is doing thesis on kidney.

Similarly, numerous experiments are done on people in the name of treatment just to complete the thesis or to get the name published in some so called Medical Journal. The pain and emotions of the patient and his family’s sentiments are all ignored intentionally and the patient is used as an object whose body is stabbed and sacrificed for money and experiments. The brutality done in the name of experiments is so wild that even the hell would be a better place than the premises of these doctors. Usually these experiments are done secretly and the patient's consent is taken on paper by showing other picture of the reality cunningly. The patients are unaware about the brutality they will be facing in the name of treatment and most of the patients in India end up with severe diseases and even death; thanks to these corrupt money minded doctors who use human body for their lust.

The most awful experiments are done on new born babies and infants in India. Millions of newborns are killed in India by doctors in the name of experimentation. These experiments are frequently done on different and unique cases for example endoscopic work in a newborn whose mother is a kidney patient. The parents face mental trauma by these doctors as these doctors pressurize the parents to donate the child for thesis. Most of the doctors give wrong and negative reviews about the child’s health to the parents and misguide them to put end to their hopes. The term "observation" is used to exploit the body of the new born mercilessly for personal interests.

Generally, money is charged in the name of blood for transfusion and medicines but the same is not provided to the new born children because it not needed in the first place. The parent’s interference and attendance is prevented to the most to make them unaware about the issue. For the doctors newborns are just like a car that came for servicing. Just like any corrupt car mechanic who makes big bills and shows multiple works in a car, corrupt doctors in India ruin the life and future of the new born by doing multiple surgeries and experiments on the child just to fill out their so called thesis. Their leaders guide them to be merciless as being merciless means being more rich. In every medical institute doctors are guided to consider a patient as a body and not as a human. The term "body" itself clears out the emotions in these doctors as money is the prime motto.

It is like any other technical field which we are not aware about. For example; when we give our laptop or computer or any electronic item for repair, we get huge bill in return and we are bound to trust the bill and defects the engineer tells us. Similarly, doctors in India live with an ego that they are a doctor so they know better than anyone. 

The most common reply to any question of a patient is “WHO IS THE DOCTOR?  YOU OR ME? ” This one reply is enough to seal the patient’s lips.

Besides infants, adult patients are frequently exploited and sent to grave by these corrupt doctors in the name of treatment. These doctors fetch money, time, body, organs and the life of the patient. The population of patients is so high that it becomes very difficult to trace them or catch them. The people who revolt or force to get their patient discharged are often threatened in the name of LAMA (Leave Against Medical Advice). These doctors do their best to make the patient stay in the hospital as more days means more money.

From diagnostic centers to learning doctors to experienced doctors to five star hospitals to government hospitals corruption is present everywhere as money minded corrupt doctors have spread across the nation like a viral. In this entire corruption scenario, the government and the political leaders are silent and ignorant towards these issues. There is no intervention of government for these sensitive matters and there is no control over the ever increasing crimes in the medical world. 

The government should make special teams and secret programs to monitor and examine the crime these doctors do in the name of treatment. The so called clause of Ethics should be more strictly applied so that these corrupt doctors do not play with the lives of innocent patients and only that treatment be provided which they really need. 

Frankly speaking instead of relying on the silent government the people should  take steps to prevent themselves from these crimes. Before rushing to any nearby clinic for the treatment and blindly trusting the prescribed treatment, it is better to have a second opinion as well as be well informed about your illness, it's symptoms and probable treatments with the help of enormous info available online and on various medical sites and in various medical books. The information about the prescribed medicines is also available online so that you are aware of what you are taking in your body. 

Above all, For the illness that can be easily avoided by taking precautions must be at all costs avoided because PREVENTION IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN CURE. 

The term "PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE"  can be a second definition for this article as preventing yourself from going to these corrupt doctors is certainly the best cure.

© PULKIT MOHAN SINGLA, 18 August, 2015

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Why men rape in India?

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Although India has seen rapes since ages but in today’s 21’st century it is raised to a great extent where humanity and morals are squashed completely by the rapists of India and limits have been crossed to the extent that it is now one of the most horrifying nightmare a victim would have ever seen.  From sexual assaults to harassment to brutal gang rapes, things are not healthy in India any more. Millions of rape cases are pending in courts seeking justice since many years and have gotten nothing except for society’s criticism. It has been noticed that thousands of victims do not file any report to the police as the tag of a rape victim puts you in a worse position than a terrorist in India. Instead of sympathy people consider rape victim as a taboo since being raped is the most awful thing which can happen according to what Indians believe.

 Most of them even question the credibility and character of the victim. It is also seen that most of the Indians blame the victim for the rape; they believe that the sexual excess is granted by corrupt women rather than a pure and pious woman of the society. They consider men as the dog who is tempted by the sweets which is women of course (thereby blaming the woman who is the victim herself). This ideology is present among the masses in India and is deep enough to make things worse in future.

After any rape incident, many reasons/justifications are given based on the background of the victim as well as the rapist. The rapist is considered as being pressurized for the crime under the following excuses:

“He must have had lot of drinks , he might be on drugs , he must have seen pornography before the rape , he must have seen some violent movie , he must be wanting to show his dominance, woman/girl must be roaming around with some guy in short dress and thus disrespecting our culture so he must have decided to teach her a lesson, he must have been provoked by the victim , he must be hating her , he must be hating women all together ...”

Similarly, the victim is considered provocateur and is held responsible under the following excuses:
“She must be wearing short clothes, she must be out with him at night(what girl of good character roams around at night with some guy??), she must be having an affair before, she must be having sex with multiple partners, she must be a corrupt lady, she must be provoking him by wearing decolletage or sexy dresses, and she must be a call girl ..."

In most of the cases women are considered responsible in India for any rape or sexual crime. India is not less than any Islamic country where women are not allowed to have a voice or to move out for work. Instead of a black dress called as burkha or nikab, Indians have introduced saree since years which covers the whole body parts including the head and the face (purdah system still prevails in Indian culture mainly in rural areas.). A Woman is considered as an object and her roles are set by the male dominant society of India. Just like any Islamic or Muslim ideology, Indians also prefer their women to stay indoors and do household jobs only.

There is no exact answer or any valid reply to the question that why men rape in India? Men will rape if they want to; this is the only answer to this question. The human body is made to have sex and male and female are two human beings who give immense pleasure to each other when they perform intercourse or any sexual activity including penetration in the mouth or vagina or even rectum. Generally rape involves penetration either oral or vaginal or even anal. There are very few cases where the victim has been forced only for foreplay or kissing as the main source of pleasure is intercourse which is done to women and even men for sexual satisfaction.

Males are attracted to females and they look out for sexual excess for the fulfillment of sexual desire. In the Modern world, the centuries old process of selection is still present. Just like in animal species the female chooses the male according to his body stats, his color, his strength and his popularity; women in today’s world choose a man on the basis of his looks, his status, his financial strength and his physical perfection. The men who are rejected often pressurize women for sexual grant and even the chosen ones look out for other female partners for more sexual satisfaction. Sometimes the chosen partner is not appealing in sex and dissatisfaction creates provocative environment for the body and the mind.

There is no end to this as men will be seeking women for sex as they are born to have sex and women would be selecting men according to the qualities they desire. The only way to moderate or control the tendency of rape is law and order. The right framework is needed to control the rape along with change of typical mindset. The most important thing is that rapists must get exemplary punishment and that with immediate action. The women who are criticized for being raped must be accepted by the society and supported physically, legally, emotionally and even financially by the government. Steps must also be taken to make self-defense compulsory for every woman/ girl along with the availability of self-defense tools like pepper spray and stun gun.  

Majority of the rapists involved are juveniles in this awful activity but are only entitled to maximum 3 years punishment which reflects the careless attitude of government of India towards young rapists. It is also noticed that young guys and young men are much more into rape crime as hormones of the body are more active in young age and young men of India want to explore sex more than any other middle aged man.  Although a person of any age can rape but the popular majority of rapists fall under young men category in India.

On the other hand, It is also seen that many women in India con men on the basis of false sexual assault or false sexual harassment complaints including false rape complaint to fetch handsome amount of money. This business of corruption is very popular in metropolitan cities of India. The impact of this con business is so high that many police officers consider genuine complaints as fake complaints and it becomes difficult to distinguish among the genuine victim and the fake victim.

India has the largest illiterate community and in the search for work millions of illiterate people migrate to commercial cities for work and money. It has been noticed that poor and illiterate people are more into sexual crimes than educated people in India. In many gang rape cases, most of the culprits found are juvenile and uneducated. Many admit that it’s their daily routine to grab girls and women from streets and perform brutal gang rapes. They eventually kill the victim in order to be safe and this ideology is wide spread in India.

After every rape, debates and discussions are shown on news channels and different people are blamed for the incident. In all this mess the political leaders of the country are ignorant towards the issue and sadly most of them find this completely OK as they also consider the woman solely responsible for the same. There is no checking and no control over the unlimited population of illiterate poor people coming in the metropolitan cities and that is why it becomes so easy for them to commit a crime and run away back to their home towns and states where they belong to. Most of them do not have any licence and address proof or any document which proves their identity and hence it becomes impossible to catch them after crime. Moreover, the political leaders consider poor people as the main source for vote bank because they are high in majority hence they do not take their crime seriously.

India is a country where everyone has a right to do anything they want, it can be a rape or it can be any other crime. The one who tries to stop is a culprit here.