Pulkit mohan singla

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Sunday, March 8, 2015

Why most of the Indians mentality is similar to the rapist’s mentality?

Why most of the Indians mentality is similar to the rapist’s mentality?
Article By Pulkit Mohan Singla

Most of the men in India live the life of a dictator where they have squashed woman at every level. Starting from their birth, they have been given better life compared to their sister. They have been regarded auspicious as they will bring a bride when they will marry with lots of dowry coming in and the girl is considered inauspicious by many families as she is raised till her puberty and at her marriage the dowry is given along with her. You might be thinking that this cheap mentality is only alive among  the poor communities in India but in reality most of the conservative and so called traditional people who are well to do in financial terms carry this mentality. The reason of mentality is lust for money and other motives. These people compare a person with assets and money and that’s why they consider girl child as expenditure and not an asset.

According to the thinking of most of the Indians, besides being an expenditure woman is also considered a source of pleasure. Her identity and individuality is questioned every second. In reality she is not considered human but a machine that is born to full fill the roles laid down by the male dominated society of the country India. Woman’s position was terrible since the history of India. From Sati (woman has to burn herself if her husband dies) to child marriage to sex slavery to prostitution, women faced a lot in India.

On one hand women are considered the reflection of Goddess, on other hand she is beaten, humiliated, tortured, raped everywhere in India. Most of the Indians believe that a woman has to be homely and has to be fully covered in terms of clothing. Woman is made for certain jobs only and that is raising children , being a housewife , doing household works  and fulfilling the physical needs of man of the house. This mentality is so deep inside the Indian values that almost every person in India wants their wife’s or daughters or sisters to be homely. 

Although due to development , new jobs have created scope for women who want to work and most of the educated women are stepping outside to work and to be independent but still today almost 90% of Indian women are housewives and their life surrounds only around house , kids and husband. The individuality and self dependence of Indian women is rare to see only in metropolitan cities. The women who work outside or work late or interact or work with male colleagues are not considered good by some so called cheap and narrow minded thinkers in India. They spread negative reviews about the working women who are independent as for them a woman and a man has only one relation and that is of sex. Certainly rape is an excuse they give to justify their crime. As one of the rapists said in the interview that he was teaching a lesson to the girl who was roaming outside with a guy at night. This absurd excuse and mentality is present in almost every rapist and there is no shortage of such thinkers in India.

Most of the Indian men restrict their daughters or wives from being independent and working due to many reasons. The most important concern is protection which also provokes men to prevent women from going out. Indian man knows that India is not safe for women and there is no control on rapes and assaults. The belief towards law and order is weak as people have experienced betrayal and false promises from every government and every political leader or system they believed in. The Indian men believe that they cannot change the political system and law and order but at least they can save the women of their family from crime by stopping her from going out and by restricting her independence.

It’s such a shame that besides the tragic gang rape of Nirbhaya in India, besides such a big outrage and anger, the government fails to make a law against the juvenile who was also a culprit in the gang rape. The person who was responsible for such brutal act has only got 3 yrs imprisonment. Indian political leaders don’t consider the severity of the situation that’s why until now no law has been made against the juveniles who commit rapes and murders.

The Indian government and the law has given licence to juveniles to commit crime as they know that no matter how much brutality they do , they will only get 3 yrs imprisonment which is the maximum punishment for juveniles in India. It’s so scary to see the careless free attitude of Indian leaders. In future terrorist can also use this weakness of Indian law but the political parties are only busy in blaming each other.

The Indian population is aware about their law and hence they believe that the only option they got is to stop women from being free and independent and making their life like a prisoner who is home jailed and that seems to be the only option to save her from any crime. Self-defence training can be a plus but never can be the sole solution to this problem.

On one hand, Bollywood shows nudity of women and sex while on the other hand Indians claim that they are most decent in terms of morals and ethics which eloquently reflects on their double standards.

Indians live with everyday incidents of crime, rape, assault, lust, corruption but they don’t want to believe it. The Indian population is used to the news of rape and crime and today it feels alright to them.

One of the most interesting facts is that the rape incidents where the brutality is less or the victim is simply killed by stabbing or by other regular means; people do not pay much attention. Although the incident of Nirbhaya was a great shock as it crossed all the heights of brutality, people’s over suppressed anger burst out on the streets which was the only reason that the government and the political leaders were compelled to make a strict law against the rapist. In India there are numerous cases of rape but nobody has time to go on the streets every time to get justice for the victim and it’s shocking that the case files which are not much highlighted are not attended on priority by the Indian cops.

The media in India is more paid and less original. They only highlight the things when their TRPs or their income level is set. The most common evidence of this is that media has not at all highlighted the juvenile case continuously; they have not pressurized the political leaders to make a law against the culprit juvenile. Media has only time to promote the campaigns of the paying party or praise the actors and cricketers for money.

India will never see a day when crime like rape will be rare as Illiteracy, poverty, narrow mindedness, superstition, corruption and so called Indian thinking and so called mentality of gender dominance will never end.

 Copyright @ Pulkit Mohan Singla, 2015.

Thursday, February 26, 2015

Why straight human community is a hypocrite when it comes to sexual diversity? must read

Being gay starts from the day you are created in the womb as your certain genes and biological changes gives you this new species which is different from the entire world. You are born with this trait and it’s in your blood, the fact is you are created as gay, just like different species with different breeds. It’s so surprising that human beings accept and cooperate with all the living species of the world no matter how much diversity and difference is there but humans cannot cooperate with their own species with different traits and genetics.

Gay or lesbian or straight or transgender, all are different breeds of human species in which straight breed is high in percentage. I guess that high percentage creates an ego factor among the straight breed which motivates them to be a dictator and ignorant towards other species just because other species have less majority.
On one way we are trying our best to save animals like tiger which are getting extinct and they are not like human beings in anyway. In fact they are a threat to mankind as they are also man eaters. Similarly other animal species are saved and rehabilitated by humans no matter how much dangerous the species is to mankind.
Humans give an old excuse of cycle of nature that they are doing preservation and safeguard to maintain the balance.

Just like that, Gay, lesbian and transgender breeds in human beings are a balance to check on the rapidly spreading over population of human species. In the world where 90% of humans are giving births to kids and raising them it’s obvious to notice the 
10 % of it who are not having kids or are not interested in the same. That 10 % of human beings include gay, lesbian, transgender and even the straight bachelor people.
Why it is necessary to push and force the 10 % majority to follow the 90% majority and do the same activity of getting married to have children and raising them. Why this 90% of human beings majority only wants to overpopulate the world? Why they cannot accept the new breed in their human species just like they accepted the creatures of entire world?

Just like other creatures, humans are having these 4 distinct breeds since the beginning of the mankind. Surprisingly these distinct breeds are also present in animals since their evolution. But animals have got acceptance in every corner of the world and the distinct human species (gay, lesbian, Trans) are an issue of discussion since thousands of years. They are a topic and it’s been a very long wait they have been holding but still no concrete step has ever been taken.

We only isolate a particular species when it is a threat to us but surprisingly human beings get attracted to threat and they even wants to be closer to the same in order to show their power and ego. Snakes a species which can kill the entire human community and is entirely different from mankind in every possible way is even kept as pet by humans , they are also a source of attraction and they are saved and protected by same human beings then what is the problem in accepting the same human species with different traits?

There is no solid reason for hating gay or lesbian or transgender and there is no danger at all but still there is no acceptance and support. The straight human community has all the evidence of the existence of these different breeds but still they act ignorant.
Most of the straight humans call it a choice and believe that it’s an inclination from west but if they believe so why they do not force animals to act and behave like humans? Why they do not make laws to stop animals? The reason behind this is fear. 
It is believed that animals can be a fear to mankind and human beings are also flesh eaters as animals are used for food since the ancient times. Animals have discovered their own qualities and traits of protection and survival which helps them in surviving in the animal and human world.Survival tactics adopted by animals have helped animals in gaining respect and survival. 

but why this partiality? why humans of different orientation are not accepted just like all the world species? on one hand we say that we are secular and we are above all the religions and cast and we accept every person no matter what cast or religion he/she belongs too then why cant we include sexual orientation in the headline of so called secularism?  People with low cast are given endless benefits and incentives by govt. as they have been a target attack by other upper cast humans , then why gay , lesbian or transgender are not considered humans? why they are still a target attack by straight humans? why nothing is done in their favor? why they are considered worse than animals? why no body cares?

Many people say that gay sex is unnatural and in reality maximum percentage of straight couples practice unnatural sex. Is their really a way to check in the bedrooms of two people? are we really checking on the sex life of every living animal? most of the animals in this world are homosexual , are we criminalizing that too?

I guess these different breeds of human species (gay, lesbian, Trans) have to develop their own traits of protection and survival otherwise they will end up as a victim of hypocrisy by straight human breed just like they were in the past.

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Work ethics of below middle class in India ( must read)

India is the most populated country with high illiteracy scale. Education, knowledge and skill are a privilege of rich and middle class. The rest of the remaining community which are below middle class does not have these three elements but still they survive better than middle class community. Generally they are into specific jobs which above middle class people consider low in terms of dignity.

From housekeeping to labor job to other commercial labor work such as plumbing, electrical, paint, plaster or mason , almost 99 % below middle class people in India  do these jobs. Surprisingly without having any knowledge and education they do these critical jobs.  The jobs of plumbing or electricity or mason etc requires knowledge and education at a bigger level as any small mistake can affect the life of the people in a negative way but surprisingly India does not have any education for these subjects. There is no separate course for plumbing or housekeeping or electrician or mason worker which is the funniest thing as all the infrastructure depends on these things in a bigger way and the people who construct these things are inadequate and unqualified.
Although India has architects and engineers who direct these unqualified workers but still the one who are actually working must be aware about it. Generally they get the skills from the local sources which is not any school but a guidance from their co workers who are senior in these jobs or they learn the same by seeing particular work.
India has millions of infrastructures which are under construction and under construction residential houses are the learning school for these workers. These below middle class community generally migrate from their hometowns to big cities for work and in big cities they perform great unity with their village friends and relatives. Their main intention is to fetch money which provokes them to be unite among their below middle class community.
In reality, skills are not the enough to create a perfect masterpiece; knowledge and education are also needed. Generally most of the construction work performed by these unqualified workers is not up to the mark as they don’t have any education. 

The mistakes and inadequate work performed by unqualified workers provokes the paying customer in a negative way and quarrels and fights are a common thing which happens between below middle class worker and middle class customer. Generally the rich community does not come in direct contact with below middle class community and hence the middle class community is only one who deals with below middle class for work and other jobs.

The scale of quarrels and fights is more than the scale of peace in India as education is lack among the masses.
Education not only provides knowledge but also makes a person a better human as decency and behavior are also guided by education.

Sadly below middle class community live like animals and the need of money and other materialistic things provokes them to do anything including crime and unethical activities.

Every year countless crimes including murder, rape , theft , assault , con are performed by these below middle class community people in India. The big cities are their working spot and they frequently travel from the big cities to their village towns and surprisingly 90 % of middle class people are not aware about the address and basic information of these unqualified below middle class workers which gives advantage to these below middle class people to perform any crime and runaway back to their villages.

India is an independent country but no political party and no leader has got the courage to solve these issues of poverty, illiteracy, over population and crime. In every 5 years , elections are conducted and the base line for wining these elections is poverty but still India gets nothing but false hope as changing this scenario is like kicking out your servants and doing the same job by yourself which is surely not a lifestyle of Indian people.

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Can gay really enjoy sex with a straight woman?


I know its a very surprising question as we all know that gay men are only attracted towards men and there is no chance by which they can be attracted to woman . But still some gay men are married and are living happily ever after but the billion dollar question is how?

Most of the gay men ignore marriage as they know that they don't feel attracted to woman but what about those who marry a girl and live a normal life without any troubles and bad consequences. how they are managing their sex life? what is the key to success ? and how they build courage to face the situation and deal with it and the most important is how they do it?

After facing and realising the reality of being gay , most of the gay men end up with depression and work out to find out a solution to their problem. There cannot be any solution as gay cannot be converted into straight and there is no way by which it can be treated as being gay is all natural.

The source of inspiration to change themselves comes up from bisexual men who are blessed by nature to enjoy both the flavours. as we all know that bisexual men are attracted to both men and woman , gay men are always curious to become bisexual or act bisexual to change themselves. As bisexual men can satisfy both the genders they can easily get married and live a normal life which is not a privilege of gay men.

But still most of the gay men try to become bisexual just to save themselves from the tag of gay but the most important task is attraction . The attraction is most important for erection which leads to intercourse. Attraction provokes people for foreplay which is crucial to create intimacy but gay men can never enjoy foreplay with opposite sex .

The solution to save their marriage lies in sex only but again with the new method. This new method is helpful many times but it needs lots of practise and very adjusting partner. Most of the new bisexual turned gay men imagine their wife as men at the time of making out just like masturbation where we have some or the other person in mind when we fantasise. In this way they imagine the live person into the gender they feel attracted to but its a very stupid and difficult task .

The sensual zones of our body are so sensitive that any touch can make them active and many gay men are aware of this simple fact so they act like a toy for their wife . They convince her to do anything she wants to their body its like being a non living toy play boy where the woman is smooching and sucking the body and the private part. Its but natural that the private part will erect by regular touch and love and can even be used for fucking if the woman wont let the dick slow down. well the woman will be deprived of kiss or smooch on the lips as that gesture is very sensitive which no gay men can share. But the difficult part is that every woman cannot get convinced to this theory of love making where she has to make out with a statue husband as woman needs love and care and intimacy in return which a gay husband cannot give.

thirdly gay men may find it difficult to get themselves sexually exploited everyday by their wife as this new method of sex will not give mental and emotional satisfaction to gay men. many woman will suspect when the gay husband will advocate this kind of love making. its important to make the woman understand the reason for advocating this new method which is again very tough task. very few woman compromise and adjust according to gay men wishes . the happily ever after couples look perfect in picture but in reality these marriages are a nightmare for both the partners. some woman may compromise and opt this way to save their marriage but this does not seem a very workable option for long time as emotional bonding can only be established when partners enjoy mutually.

generally the gay men who look happy in their marriages use this new sex method in the early days of marriage so that they can manage to have one or two child. the child is the most common reason which provokes woman to stay in the marriage and live without sex with the gay husband.

forcefully or willingly , gay men can never enjoy sex with a straight woman but he can get raped by her if he is desperate to save the marriage.

Saturday, December 20, 2014


Most of the house owners in India practise living style which is full of corruption and politics specially when it comes to neighbourhood. Here are some insights about the shocking corruption neighbours do in their neighbourhood in India.

1.) City roads are already very pathetic and stinky due to bad sewerage management and they become more disastrous thanks to people and their attitude and living in the city. In most of the sectors the govt. has provided with narrow roads which creates difficulties on daily basis , rest of the remaining roads is encroached by people in name of parking.

2.)Most of the house owners in sectors park the cars on roads and not in their house. They intentionally do not park their cars in their verandas/garage and occupy the roads causing traffic and inconvenience to the moving traffic. This attitude of not parking cars in the house and parking on the roads is taken so seriously by the house owners that even in the most crowded days of festivals cars are parked on the roads provoking traffic at higher rate.

3.)The home owners also encroach the pedestrian pathways given to them adjacent to their ramp or slant. The pedestrian pathway which they get for parking adjacent to slant or ramp must be used for parking but sadly most of them make garden on that area and encroach it by fencing again which gives them excuse to park on the roads as they do not wish to use their veranda/garage for the same.

4.)Most of the sector houses install private gates on the entry of a particular sector and on the exit of particular sector and use it according to their will again creating problems for other people who wish to enter the sector. Today almost 90% sectors have done this illegal encroachment but again govt. bodies are sleeping and behaving innocent and unaware about it.

5.)Most of the home owners do the illegal activities under the sheets of welfare associations. generally all the home owners counter money together which is fetched from every house forcefully as an order by welfare association . The home owners elect some group of people to make decisions and perform actions who act like a dictator when it comes to creating changes in the sectors and environment. There is no record of the money they take from all the house owners and no record of spending. This is an illegal way of making money and acting as a tax fetching entity and playing with the basic structure of govt. planning.

6.) these sector owners may transform the public park but again they torture and humiliate other house owners who do not pay money to them . The other house owners who do not wish to dance on the tunes of welfare associations and who do not wish to pay money every month are pressurized every single time for the same .

7.) The sector house owners make uncountable speed breakers like an illiterate. The speed breakers made by them are huge and out of shape which creates damages to the cars frequently. The home owners don't know the basic guidelines but again they use their dictatorship in transforming the sectors according to their will.

8.) Cricket which is the most favourite game among the masses also creates a addict effect on the sector house owners. Most of the house owners encourage their children to play cricket on the roads which many times leads to injury and accidents to children as well as to other people as well as to the cars and to the window panes. window panes and car windows are broken frequently by the passion of cricket. But there is also a twist and politics involved in this. Most of the house owners are of mean mentality and they do not encourage their kids to play in front of their own house but guide them to play cricket in front of other houses so that their house or car will be protected. Same attitude works in case of crackers , at the time of festivals many sector home owners provoke their children to play crackers in front of the house of others so that their own house will not become untidy from outside. When other owners object , they face profanity and quarrels from the mean mentality owners. The mean mentality owners forget the fact that playgrounds and parks are made for recreational activities like cricket and not the roads but again govt. bodies fail to monitor this thing and fails to make any law and order.

9.) Most of the house owners do commercial activities like opening paying guest accommodations popularly called as PG or by running private offices. Its shocking but a known fact that many illegal activities including prostitution is done under the sheets of private office and pg.

10.) At the time of any personal function of the sectors resident owners the roads face unlimited torture. The sector house owners intentionally and illegally encroach the roads by installing tents. These tents damage the roads as iron poles are inserted in the roads by creating holes in the roads as well as these private functions block the roads and hence causing traffic and problems to other moving traffic. the function ends up with lot of food and waste disposal on the road which again cause untidy and polluted environment.

11.) The plots which are empty are used as a waste disposal by other sector residents and also serves as a place for illegal shacks. There is no aesthetic appearance of sectors as everyone is violating the environment by their wills and attitudes. It looks like that once a plot is allotted to a user he is free to make changes in the environment no matter how much problems other people get.

India is getting urbanised and developed but still most of the people don't have decency and manners when it comes to living in sectors.


Sunday, November 23, 2014

Why medical profession is the most corrupt profession in India?

Why medical profession is the most corrupt profession in India?

Doctors are always considered god in India and their profession as the most Nobel profession as they save lives which is the most appealing and great thing one can do. 

The image of this medical profession in India is so incredible that whosoever passes out from the medical college is considered the most qualified person. 

No matter how much educated or how much uneducated we are, we admire and respect the doctors to a very big extent. We may not be aware about the intelligence as well as the experience the doctor is having, for us being a doctor is enough. The most surprising fact is that almost 90 % of people have the same thinking. They believe that being a doctor is being the son of god. A doctor is considered the best above all professions as if other professionals of other fields have not studied at all.

This faith and belief of nobility in the medical profession has given rise to the corruption as most of us have a legal mindset that a doctor is always right. 

Let me explain you how it is a corrupt profession and from where the corruption starts. The corruption of the medical profession starts from the beginning when the students work hard to pass the pre medical test popularly called as PMT.  Most of the students know the in and outs to crack the PMT and there are many illegal ways by which Students pass the PMT  and the most common is bribe which we all are aware about.

Again after PMT the students are confused as they either have to choose the dental world or the anatomy world. well surprisingly the dental world in india is considered low and degraded when compared to MBBS and other medicine lines. Students and parents want their child to be MBBS rather than being a BDS and in most of the cases students choose BDS just because they have not got the admission in MBBS. Although BDS does not have much value in the society in India but BDS Field is not less than MBBS when it comes to corruption.

As the students approach for medical colleges, most of the medical colleges are just like 5 star hotels who are ready to fetch money. They are not concerned with your marks and caliber as most of the colleges like and invite the students who can pay bribe. For colleges the bribe is called as donation which is obviously in lakhs and crores depending on the subject of the medical science. For dental world the bribe is in lakhs but in case of MBBS the bribe even goes in crores.

 Generally there are very few students who actually work hard and get selected on the basis of marks rest most of the students offer donations to get the favorite department.

As the students get the admissions the colleges start their drama of so called studies. Most of the medical colleges in India have inadequate arrangement and facilities and the time which should be spent on learning surgeries and medicines is generally spent on the seminars which are presented in other states which again serve as a income source of colleges as colleges fetch money in the form of registration charges and this process of frequent seminars goes on till the student period of study in the college.

Moreover most of the teachers appointed in medical colleges are those who are a failure in the outer world as they charge less and again spend some hours and some alternate days in college as they do 2 or 3 jobs to run their kitchen. In this way they just pass their time and charge money of their presence, the education is out of the question in this case. 

Moreover most of the PG students are appointed as the teachers just after their graduation by these colleges no matter how much unqualified or inexperienced they are. The PG students are generally at a very less pay which is again a best thing for colleges who only want to fill up the posts.

The unqualified teachers don’t teach any surgeries and engage students in paper work and seminars. In most of the cases students learn the surgeries outside the colleges from local doctors and clinics by paying extra. This unprofessional way of colleges waste the time and money of the students and corrupt the whole medical environment.

Most of the students please the teachers by gifts and other gains to pass out well and this tendency of pleasing through gifts is circulated from seniors to juniors. This behavior of pleasing teachers with money and gifts is generated by teachers only as most of the teachers believe that when the student can pay donation to the college they can even pay to the teachers for passing exam.
Most of the students compromise and please their teachers with gifts and money as they have already spend millions in the donation and fees and they don't want to ruin their carrier just for some more lakhs.

Most of the students after passing out carry aggression and hatred towards medical profession as besides paying huge donation and fees they have learnt nothing but have wasted time in paperwork and in pleasing the teachers with expensive gifts.

The internship students in the medical colleges are a night mare for common man as the patients are not aware about the doctors who are doing the treatment. Patients are just like a dead body for these learning doctors as they experiment their inefficiencies on the patients. The patient comes under the trap of free treatment or discounted treatment and get themselves exploited by intern doctors.

After passing out these students generally have a mindset that they have to get the money back which they invested in the college as they have not learnt anything. Most of the medical students open clinics and start exploiting the public as they want to make money as fast as they can. The level of sympathy and nobility towards public is reduced as they have suffered a lot in their college time.

The people generally get attracted to good ambiance and show-off and approach the 5 star clinics in order to get comfort from their pain. They pay high in order to get relief but end up with long treatment with no results and end up as a shuttle cock that is travelling from clinics to diagnostic center to back to the clinic. The diagnostic center and medicine shops give commission to the doctors for business doctor offer to them by the patients. In this way the medical profession is just like another industry where doctors charge money for their time with no sentiments and emotions.

The profession is noble but the people aren't.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Is homosexuality really an issue in India? must read

A person who is a lawyer or a doctor or a teacher or of any other profession has its own personal life. we don't have any right to know what he/she does inside their bedrooms. Its a persons choice weather he is comfortable with men or woman. We don't ask each and every straight person that how he enjoys sex and what he/she likes in sex? or what they actually do in bedroom? all these questions are private and are shared between two partners and not in public. Then how can we decide and judge anyone on the basis of their partner choice? we don't know who is gay and who is lesbian and we cannot predict that. 

you never know if your teacher is a lesbian so why we are against homosexuality? when you cannot predict who is gay and who is straight, how can you discriminate and separate that particular community from public? 

The reality is that homosexuality is not a big issue but has been made a big issue by some negative groups in the society and by some politicians to fetch some votes and duplicate pride.  The politicians and government can easily make a law which will support homosexuality and will give them basic human rights which they deserve but they don't want to work on it. These issues are made more sensitive and more complicated by creating confusion and myths. we all know that maximum percentage of people are uneducated who are misguided by different ways.

Considering homosexuality as an issue , in reality it is an issue for families who have homosexual child in that also some families don't count the sexuality as an issue. Then who is left..? world? society? neighbors? public? frankly speaking no body has time for it and no body is concerned to change someones child into heterosexual then why it is projected as an issue of society?

The most interesting part is that this so called issue will dissolve the day government decides to make a law that supports homosexuality . Public is not above the law and order and not above the government. Since we have got independence there are so many laws made and changed and even removed from the system and not a single person had courage to protest against it. we all are common people and we live our life the way it is given to us by our govt. From inflation to crises to any other phase we adjust our self according to it and people will adjust to this change as well but again a law is a must as in this world honesty also demands a certificate.