Pulkit mohan singla

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Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Can gay really enjoy sex with a straight woman?


I know its a very surprising question as we all know that gay men are only attracted towards men and there is no chance by which they can be attracted to woman . But still some gay men are married and are living happily ever after but the billion dollar question is how?

Most of the gay men ignore marriage as they know that they don't feel attracted to woman but what about those who marry a girl and live a normal life without any troubles and bad consequences. how they are managing their sex life? what is the key to success ? and how they build courage to face the situation and deal with it and the most important is how they do it?

After facing and realising the reality of being gay , most of the gay men end up with depression and work out to find out a solution to their problem. There cannot be any solution as gay cannot be converted into straight and there is no way by which it can be treated as being gay is all natural.

The source of inspiration to change themselves comes up from bisexual men who are blessed by nature to enjoy both the flavours. as we all know that bisexual men are attracted to both men and woman , gay men are always curious to become bisexual or act bisexual to change themselves. As bisexual men can satisfy both the genders they can easily get married and live a normal life which is not a privilege of gay men.

But still most of the gay men try to become bisexual just to save themselves from the tag of gay but the most important task is attraction . The attraction is most important for erection which leads to intercourse. Attraction provokes people for foreplay which is crucial to create intimacy but gay men can never enjoy foreplay with opposite sex .

The solution to save their marriage lies in sex only but again with the new method. This new method is helpful many times but it needs lots of practise and very adjusting partner. Most of the new bisexual turned gay men imagine their wife as men at the time of making out just like masturbation where we have some or the other person in mind when we fantasise. In this way they imagine the live person into the gender they feel attracted to but its a very stupid and difficult task .

The sensual zones of our body are so sensitive that any touch can make them active and many gay men are aware of this simple fact so they act like a toy for their wife . They convince her to do anything she wants to their body its like being a non living toy play boy where the woman is smooching and sucking the body and the private part. Its but natural that the private part will erect by regular touch and love and can even be used for fucking if the woman wont let the dick slow down. well the woman will be deprived of kiss or smooch on the lips as that gesture is very sensitive which no gay men can share. But the difficult part is that every woman cannot get convinced to this theory of love making where she has to make out with a statue husband as woman needs love and care and intimacy in return which a gay husband cannot give.

thirdly gay men may find it difficult to get themselves sexually exploited everyday by their wife as this new method of sex will not give mental and emotional satisfaction to gay men. many woman will suspect when the gay husband will advocate this kind of love making. its important to make the woman understand the reason for advocating this new method which is again very tough task. very few woman compromise and adjust according to gay men wishes . the happily ever after couples look perfect in picture but in reality these marriages are a nightmare for both the partners. some woman may compromise and opt this way to save their marriage but this does not seem a very workable option for long time as emotional bonding can only be established when partners enjoy mutually.

generally the gay men who look happy in their marriages use this new sex method in the early days of marriage so that they can manage to have one or two child. the child is the most common reason which provokes woman to stay in the marriage and live without sex with the gay husband.

forcefully or willingly , gay men can never enjoy sex with a straight woman but he can get raped by her if he is desperate to save the marriage.

Saturday, December 20, 2014


Most of the house owners in India practise living style which is full of corruption and politics specially when it comes to neighbourhood. Here are some insights about the shocking corruption neighbours do in their neighbourhood in India.

1.) City roads are already very pathetic and stinky due to bad sewerage management and they become more disastrous thanks to people and their attitude and living in the city. In most of the sectors the govt. has provided with narrow roads which creates difficulties on daily basis , rest of the remaining roads is encroached by people in name of parking.

2.)Most of the house owners in sectors park the cars on roads and not in their house. They intentionally do not park their cars in their verandas/garage and occupy the roads causing traffic and inconvenience to the moving traffic. This attitude of not parking cars in the house and parking on the roads is taken so seriously by the house owners that even in the most crowded days of festivals cars are parked on the roads provoking traffic at higher rate.

3.)The home owners also encroach the pedestrian pathways given to them adjacent to their ramp or slant. The pedestrian pathway which they get for parking adjacent to slant or ramp must be used for parking but sadly most of them make garden on that area and encroach it by fencing again which gives them excuse to park on the roads as they do not wish to use their veranda/garage for the same.

4.)Most of the sector houses install private gates on the entry of a particular sector and on the exit of particular sector and use it according to their will again creating problems for other people who wish to enter the sector. Today almost 90% sectors have done this illegal encroachment but again govt. bodies are sleeping and behaving innocent and unaware about it.

5.)Most of the home owners do the illegal activities under the sheets of welfare associations. generally all the home owners counter money together which is fetched from every house forcefully as an order by welfare association . The home owners elect some group of people to make decisions and perform actions who act like a dictator when it comes to creating changes in the sectors and environment. There is no record of the money they take from all the house owners and no record of spending. This is an illegal way of making money and acting as a tax fetching entity and playing with the basic structure of govt. planning.

6.) these sector owners may transform the public park but again they torture and humiliate other house owners who do not pay money to them . The other house owners who do not wish to dance on the tunes of welfare associations and who do not wish to pay money every month are pressurized every single time for the same .

7.) The sector house owners make uncountable speed breakers like an illiterate. The speed breakers made by them are huge and out of shape which creates damages to the cars frequently. The home owners don't know the basic guidelines but again they use their dictatorship in transforming the sectors according to their will.

8.) Cricket which is the most favourite game among the masses also creates a addict effect on the sector house owners. Most of the house owners encourage their children to play cricket on the roads which many times leads to injury and accidents to children as well as to other people as well as to the cars and to the window panes. window panes and car windows are broken frequently by the passion of cricket. But there is also a twist and politics involved in this. Most of the house owners are of mean mentality and they do not encourage their kids to play in front of their own house but guide them to play cricket in front of other houses so that their house or car will be protected. Same attitude works in case of crackers , at the time of festivals many sector home owners provoke their children to play crackers in front of the house of others so that their own house will not become untidy from outside. When other owners object , they face profanity and quarrels from the mean mentality owners. The mean mentality owners forget the fact that playgrounds and parks are made for recreational activities like cricket and not the roads but again govt. bodies fail to monitor this thing and fails to make any law and order.

9.) Most of the house owners do commercial activities like opening paying guest accommodations popularly called as PG or by running private offices. Its shocking but a known fact that many illegal activities including prostitution is done under the sheets of private office and pg.

10.) At the time of any personal function of the sectors resident owners the roads face unlimited torture. The sector house owners intentionally and illegally encroach the roads by installing tents. These tents damage the roads as iron poles are inserted in the roads by creating holes in the roads as well as these private functions block the roads and hence causing traffic and problems to other moving traffic. the function ends up with lot of food and waste disposal on the road which again cause untidy and polluted environment.

11.) The plots which are empty are used as a waste disposal by other sector residents and also serves as a place for illegal shacks. There is no aesthetic appearance of sectors as everyone is violating the environment by their wills and attitudes. It looks like that once a plot is allotted to a user he is free to make changes in the environment no matter how much problems other people get.

India is getting urbanised and developed but still most of the people don't have decency and manners when it comes to living in sectors.


Sunday, November 23, 2014

Why medical profession is the most corrupt profession in India?

Why medical profession is the most corrupt profession in India?

Doctors are always considered god in India and their profession as the most Nobel profession as they save lives which is the most appealing and great thing one can do. 

The image of this medical profession in India is so incredible that whosoever passes out from the medical college is considered the most qualified person. 

No matter how much educated or how much uneducated we are, we admire and respect the doctors to a very big extent. We may not be aware about the intelligence as well as the experience the doctor is having, for us being a doctor is enough. The most surprising fact is that almost 90 % of people have the same thinking. They believe that being a doctor is being the son of god. A doctor is considered the best above all professions as if other professionals of other fields have not studied at all.

This faith and belief of nobility in the medical profession has given rise to the corruption as most of us have a legal mindset that a doctor is always right. 

Let me explain you how it is a corrupt profession and from where the corruption starts. The corruption of the medical profession starts from the beginning when the students work hard to pass the pre medical test popularly called as PMT.  Most of the students know the in and outs to crack the PMT and there are many illegal ways by which Students pass the PMT  and the most common is bribe which we all are aware about.

Again after PMT the students are confused as they either have to choose the dental world or the anatomy world. well surprisingly the dental world in india is considered low and degraded when compared to MBBS and other medicine lines. Students and parents want their child to be MBBS rather than being a BDS and in most of the cases students choose BDS just because they have not got the admission in MBBS. Although BDS does not have much value in the society in India but BDS Field is not less than MBBS when it comes to corruption.

As the students approach for medical colleges, most of the medical colleges are just like 5 star hotels who are ready to fetch money. They are not concerned with your marks and caliber as most of the colleges like and invite the students who can pay bribe. For colleges the bribe is called as donation which is obviously in lakhs and crores depending on the subject of the medical science. For dental world the bribe is in lakhs but in case of MBBS the bribe even goes in crores.

 Generally there are very few students who actually work hard and get selected on the basis of marks rest most of the students offer donations to get the favorite department.

As the students get the admissions the colleges start their drama of so called studies. Most of the medical colleges in India have inadequate arrangement and facilities and the time which should be spent on learning surgeries and medicines is generally spent on the seminars which are presented in other states which again serve as a income source of colleges as colleges fetch money in the form of registration charges and this process of frequent seminars goes on till the student period of study in the college.

Moreover most of the teachers appointed in medical colleges are those who are a failure in the outer world as they charge less and again spend some hours and some alternate days in college as they do 2 or 3 jobs to run their kitchen. In this way they just pass their time and charge money of their presence, the education is out of the question in this case. 

Moreover most of the PG students are appointed as the teachers just after their graduation by these colleges no matter how much unqualified or inexperienced they are. The PG students are generally at a very less pay which is again a best thing for colleges who only want to fill up the posts.

The unqualified teachers don’t teach any surgeries and engage students in paper work and seminars. In most of the cases students learn the surgeries outside the colleges from local doctors and clinics by paying extra. This unprofessional way of colleges waste the time and money of the students and corrupt the whole medical environment.

Most of the students please the teachers by gifts and other gains to pass out well and this tendency of pleasing through gifts is circulated from seniors to juniors. This behavior of pleasing teachers with money and gifts is generated by teachers only as most of the teachers believe that when the student can pay donation to the college they can even pay to the teachers for passing exam.
Most of the students compromise and please their teachers with gifts and money as they have already spend millions in the donation and fees and they don't want to ruin their carrier just for some more lakhs.

Most of the students after passing out carry aggression and hatred towards medical profession as besides paying huge donation and fees they have learnt nothing but have wasted time in paperwork and in pleasing the teachers with expensive gifts.

The internship students in the medical colleges are a night mare for common man as the patients are not aware about the doctors who are doing the treatment. Patients are just like a dead body for these learning doctors as they experiment their inefficiencies on the patients. The patient comes under the trap of free treatment or discounted treatment and get themselves exploited by intern doctors.

After passing out these students generally have a mindset that they have to get the money back which they invested in the college as they have not learnt anything. Most of the medical students open clinics and start exploiting the public as they want to make money as fast as they can. The level of sympathy and nobility towards public is reduced as they have suffered a lot in their college time.

The people generally get attracted to good ambiance and show-off and approach the 5 star clinics in order to get comfort from their pain. They pay high in order to get relief but end up with long treatment with no results and end up as a shuttle cock that is travelling from clinics to diagnostic center to back to the clinic. The diagnostic center and medicine shops give commission to the doctors for business doctor offer to them by the patients. In this way the medical profession is just like another industry where doctors charge money for their time with no sentiments and emotions.

The profession is noble but the people aren't.

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Is homosexuality really an issue in India? must read

A person who is a lawyer or a doctor or a teacher or of any other profession has its own personal life. we don't have any right to know what he/she does inside their bedrooms. Its a persons choice weather he is comfortable with men or woman. We don't ask each and every straight person that how he enjoys sex and what he/she likes in sex? or what they actually do in bedroom? all these questions are private and are shared between two partners and not in public. Then how can we decide and judge anyone on the basis of their partner choice? we don't know who is gay and who is lesbian and we cannot predict that. 

you never know if your teacher is a lesbian so why we are against homosexuality? when you cannot predict who is gay and who is straight, how can you discriminate and separate that particular community from public? 

The reality is that homosexuality is not a big issue but has been made a big issue by some negative groups in the society and by some politicians to fetch some votes and duplicate pride.  The politicians and government can easily make a law which will support homosexuality and will give them basic human rights which they deserve but they don't want to work on it. These issues are made more sensitive and more complicated by creating confusion and myths. we all know that maximum percentage of people are uneducated who are misguided by different ways.

Considering homosexuality as an issue , in reality it is an issue for families who have homosexual child in that also some families don't count the sexuality as an issue. Then who is left..? world? society? neighbors? public? frankly speaking no body has time for it and no body is concerned to change someones child into heterosexual then why it is projected as an issue of society?

The most interesting part is that this so called issue will dissolve the day government decides to make a law that supports homosexuality . Public is not above the law and order and not above the government. Since we have got independence there are so many laws made and changed and even removed from the system and not a single person had courage to protest against it. we all are common people and we live our life the way it is given to us by our govt. From inflation to crises to any other phase we adjust our self according to it and people will adjust to this change as well but again a law is a must as in this world honesty also demands a certificate.

Sunday, October 5, 2014

why we use death for our survival?

Its obvious that no one ever wants to see death but still we use this word a lot in many ways. 

Some use it to defend them self , some use it to prove something and the most common use of this word is for excuses. People often give lame excuses of death for their self interest. 

But why we do this?

why people do not feel or realize the severity of the situation?

why this word is used so easily without any hesitation?

The thing is we have came so far that now people do not care and feel anything. The materialistic things are so powerful today that human value is zero. 

We all cry for sometime for our special ones but these materialistic things divert our attention and make us plastic. They are no more counted in the category of needs but now they are unreasonable wants.

Its strange , these non living things like land ,clothes , fame , assets , money are so lucky that people cry for them and we humans are so unlucky that people hit us and back stab us for these things.

Besides knowing the fact that we all will die one day and nobody will carry these assets like money to the graveyard or to the heaven we invest all the life in chasing money and materialistic things and no one knows when they will die but still the battle is on and we keep ourselves engaged in these useless affairs where we keep on attacking people for our unlimited wants , no matter how much evil we are doing to get them.

we all hurt our loved ones for these materialistic things and it feels pathetic when i think about those who are no more and we have offended them for nonliving stuff. we cannot go back and apologize to them as they are not alive.

 Most of us realize the value of the person later on when the person is not present between us and at that moment it feels uncomfortable as we carry the guilt all our life till we are alive.

no matter how much comfort these materialistic things give to us the absence of that special one makes our soul so suffocated that we repent on our past actions. we quest for the way to change the present as the past we left was horrifying.

it still feels so strange to think about the one who is dead and its more strange to compare their existence of past with their absence of present.

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Why India is hypocrite when it comes to sex?

Why India is hypocrite when it comes to sex?

India the land of Kamasutra is running away from its image of the originator of the art of love. It’s not that people here are sex less. In fact people remain more active and horny thanks to the type of climate and spicy food Indians eat in which most of the spices have the power to energize and activate the sex zones of the body. Although each and every person has sex urge which is normal and biological but sex is ignored in public like it’s some kind of shit which needs to be boycotted , opposite of that India has largest over population scale which shows people do sex a lot .
The level of hypocrisy in terms of sex is so much that no child is given proper sex education in India and even if the subject of sex is added in books it is ignored by teachers as if it is some kind of horror story. The children are left on their own to figure out the sex and its method when they reach puberty. Most of the parents ignore the sex questions and motivate the children to avoid it.
The kamasutra was the ancient book of love making originated in India and it’s a proud thing as no other country has this valuable and unique tale of love but again the level of hypocrisy is so much that very few people have this book and the most beautiful sculptures of khajuraho which shows the tale of love in the form of sculptures are not even maintained and looked.
The country is so hypocrite that most of the people still today live a trapped life in their marriages where most of the partners do not have sex and they are just living together as compromise. They do not carry guts to take divorce as the reason of unsatisfied sexual life will ruin their image in society. Generally Indian woman are forced to kill their sex need as sex need of a woman is a taboo in India. People believe that woman has to be pure like a goddess who is free from sex and its negativity. If any woman express the urge of sex, she is not considered decent.

The hypocrisy of Indian people is so much that most of the poor people in India commits sex related crime like rape and harassment in a large manner and the govt.  and people do not have guts to control that. The most common example of that is the bus gang rape in Delhi which turned out to be a big awakening for sleeping government but surprisingly after the arrest of the culprits there were numerous uncountable gang rapes reported in India which was a tight slap on the government by the culprits who showed their unity in crime. It’s really tough to give punishment to a rapist in India as sexual assault or harassment is not considered a very big crime until and unless intercourse is committed. If any case gets media attention , it may get justice but again by the grace of time the culprits who are rewarded with death penalty are given relaxation later on in the name of life imprisonment as the case becomes old and people look out for new topic in their boring daily lives.

The hypocrisy of Indian people in terms of sex is so much that Indian film industry has all the rights to cross their lines when it comes to selling sex in shape of movies. The sensor board is sleeping and is made just as a show off as watching today’s movies raise questions on the individuality of sensor board.

On one hand sex is considered a very big issue and on the other hand there is no control on Delhi red light area and internet where you can easily browse any type of porn you prefer.

Having sex before marriage is considered a taboo and parents proudly advocate about the innocence and purity of their child , opposite of that most of the young adults experience sex before marriage as killing body need is like killing the starvation of food.

Unlike others India has no time to talk about the topic of homosexuality and no matter which party is ruling everyone is ready to while away the issue like it’s some kind of a useless mess. Indian govt.  and its ministers are not aware of the fact that each year hundreds of people destroy their life and the partner’s life due to the orientation which they are born in. Most of homosexuals get married forcibly and the outcome is destruction which ends up into a divorce or even sometimes as a crime. There is very less percentage of homosexual community and legalizing it will not affect the large majority as there is very few percentage of homosexuals and most of them prefer bachelor hood which is a positive thing as it may serve as a control on the overpopulation but again Indian people ignores the science and encourages the superstition.

The topic of transgender will never be solved in India. People may do transgender roles in comedy shows and in films for entertainment but everyone is heartless when it comes to sympathy and help as nobody wants to think about the hardships these people face every day as they are not considered humans.

India is not a pure country where there is no sex. India and its people have same sex issues, sex crimes, sex life, sex addictions, sex facts and sex myths like any other country then why there are no upgraded laws for sex which can reduce crime and increase alertness with the reduction of myths?

Friday, May 9, 2014

What is the meaning of my life?


It’s my birthday and I am complete 25 now and I want to figure out the meaning of my life. Why I am here? What is my existence for? What are my roles? And what are those blanks I am born to fill?
Is it that same ordinary life where everybody does all those hardships and duties in order to gain materialistic success and social status?
Or I am just a medium to carry forward the future generation.
Who am I? What is my identity?
I was again and again pushing my head towards these questions to get a valid answer because I don’t want an ordinary life. I don’t want to live like others and I surely don’t want to be a problematic  for anyone.
I want to create a revolution but am I only born to create a change in others life? Or I am born to improve my life?
I simply don’t understand that why we live our life so ordinarily. We all do what others do. We all get ourselves packed into the social frame work made by some group of people to facilitate them. We all still fight for our caste and our identity without realizing the fact that humanity is the biggest identity one can carry.
Why money is the only planet we want to revolve around?
Why our life cannot become different and unique where we appreciate the nature and do such extra ordinary jobs that the whole world will be curious to know us more.
I am simply tired from this ordinary living where everyone is fighting for survival and killing each other on the basis of caste , sex , status and many more things which we feel are important  than humanity.
Who made these rules and regulations? Are people made for the rules?  Or the rules made for the people?

This world is incredible but still we people waste this one life in common things which all others do. Let’s be different, we can really avail the best of both the worlds just by putting humanity at the first.